Today I pose a very important question: why is everyone in Starbucks an asshole?
I walked into Starbucks after getting off at Harvard. The square was quaint and filled with sharply dressed students and childless newlyweds. The brick paved streets were picturesque in the cloudy weather. I was lifted with every step. Lately, my days consist of hunching over a computer and thinking of ways to make enough money to fill up my tank. But here, in the most wonderful place I could think of, Cambridge, the world was bright. Even in the overcast sky.
Here you could meet a stranger and fall in love outside of a guitar store, or find that perfect dress for ten bucks at the second hand shop. Here, my androgynous style of over sized men’s shirts, black pants and boots was the standard. Here I looked like someone who had their life together enough to pay rent.
In the coffee shop I ordered a tall latte, just enough energy to get through an internship search. A man in a wheel chair was behind me as I gazed on the book propped up next to the cash register: A Man’s Sacrifice: Supporting United State’s Veterans. I walked towards to the designated waiting area decorated with wooden table tops and sugar packets. During the next ten minutes different names and concoctions were called out, and one by one the room filtered in new customers. The man in the large wheel chair struggled to find a comfortable place. My heart went out to him, as the room was tight with table corners and the group of J-Crew models standing behind him made getting around difficult. However, he lost my compassion when he tried to ask the barista to refill the half and half when they were making four drinks at a time. Listen sir, I understand that getting stared at by everyone in the room can infuriate a person, but just hold on one second while he froths milk for seven.
The barista called out a latte without a name. A young girl, maybe in her late twenties/early thirties, stepped forward with her hand on her hip. She was mad at “that girl” at the counter because she never asked for her name- and now her latte went to someone else.
I can’t wrap my head around the tones these people felt comfortable using when everything wasn’t handed to them directly. Seriously: Why is everyone an asshole at Starbucks?